The Things We Miss When We're Just Trying to Get Through the Day
By Tannia Salazar, APRN | Rooted in Serenity Behavioral Health LLC
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For a long time, I approached most days the same way many people do.
Wake up.
Handle responsibilities.
Finish tasks.
Move on to the next thing.
Like many adults, I became very good at getting things done. What I wasn't as good at was slowing down long enough to notice what was happening around me.
Recently, I've been sharing photos from our family hikes.
Not because I'm a professional photographer.
Not because I'm trying to create perfect images.
Mostly because photography has become a way for me to slow down.
It encourages me to pay attention.
To look a little closer.
To notice things I might have otherwise walked right past.
A tiny spider suspended from a branch.
Blueberries beginning to grow long before they're ready to be picked.
A bee hovering beside a flower.
A frog tucked quietly into the mud.
None of those things are particularly remarkable on their own.
In fact, that's the point.
They are small, ordinary moments that are easy to overlook when we're rushing from one thing to the next.
I think many of us spend so much time focused on responsibilities, deadlines, and productivity that we stop noticing the small things that make up everyday life.
Not because they aren't there, but because we're moving too fast to see them.
Photography has reminded me that there is often beauty in the ordinary.
Not just in nature, but in life.
Sometimes it's found in a quiet moment with family.
A conversation.
A walk outdoors.
A laugh that catches us by surprise.
A detail we might have missed if we weren't paying attention.
One unexpected benefit has been watching my children do the same.
When we slow down enough to look for things, they start noticing them too.
Something they would have otherwise hurried past.
A frog in water.
Something beautiful I might have walked past before.
An interesting rock.
In many ways, it feels like practicing mindfulness without calling it mindfulness.
It's simply paying attention.
Spending time noticing small details outdoors has also reminded me of something I value in my work.
Many people come to psychiatric care looking for answers about why they feel the way they do. Often, understanding someone's experience requires slowing down, being curious, and looking at the bigger picture.
Every person's story contains details that matter.
Sometimes the things we overlook hold important clues.
And sometimes change begins not by doing more, but by noticing what has been there all along.
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Tannia Salazar, APRN, FNP-BC
Founder of Rooted in Serenity Behavioral Health LLC
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