🌿 When the Year-End Rush Makes Your Anxiety Spike (Finding Calm When Everything Feels Urgent)

By Tannia Salazar, APRN | Rooted in Serenity Behavioral Health LLC
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As the year winds down, life somehow speeds up. Calendars fill, to-do lists double, and everything suddenly feels urgent — even the things that weren’t urgent a month ago. If you live with anxiety, this time of year can feel like standing in the middle of a fast-moving current, trying to stay upright while everything rushes past you.

You’re not alone in this. So many people describe November and December as the months when their worries sharpen, their breathing gets tighter, and the pressure to “keep up” becomes overwhelming.

But it doesn’t have to stay that way. With the right support and a few grounding practices, you can navigate this season with steadier footing and a little more ease.

Why Anxiety Rises at the End of the Year

Even if nothing dramatic is happening, your body feels the shift.
Common anxiety triggers this time of year include:

  • Racing to finish tasks before the year ends

  • Social expectations, gatherings, and extra responsibilities

  • Changes in routine that disrupt sleep or stability

  • Shorter days and less sunlight, affecting mood and energy

  • Financial pressure from holiday spending

  • Emotional reflection — noticing what did or didn’t happen this year

Anxiety is especially sensitive to pressure and pace. When everything ramps up, your nervous system often follows.

Signs Your Anxiety Is Responding to the Year-End Push

You might notice:

  • Feeling wired, restless, or unable to relax

  • More irritability or emotional sensitivity

  • Trouble focusing

  • Sleep that feels lighter or less restorative

  • Overthinking everything

  • Feeling like you’re “behind,” even if you’re not

  • Physical symptoms like tightness in your chest, headaches, or stomach discomfort

Nothing is wrong with you — your body is simply reacting to a demanding season.

Small Practices That Bring You Back to Center

You don’t need a major lifestyle overhaul. Just a few steadying practices can shift your whole day.

1. Name Your Priorities — Not Everything Is “Urgent”

Write down the top 3 things that actually matter this week.
Circle them.
Let the rest wait!

Your nervous system calms when you give it structure.

2. Build “Quiet Pockets” Into Your Day

Five minutes in the car before going inside.
A slow stretch before bed.
A moment to breathe before answering the next email.

These small pauses help your body reset.

3. Use a One-Minute Grounding Technique

Try this:
Look for 1 thing you can touch, 1 thing you can see, 1 thing you can hear.
Bring your attention fully to each one.
It brings you back into your body, not your thoughts.

4. Protect Your Time (Boundaries)

It’s okay to say:
“I’d love to, but I don’t have the space right now.”
That’s not selfish — it’s supportive.

5. Keep Your Evenings Calm When Possible

Nervous systems tend to feel overloaded at night during this season.
Choosing quiet, low-stimulation evenings even twice a week can make a noticeable difference.

If Your Anxiety Feels Heavier This Season, You’re Not Failing

Anxiety often flares during transitions — and the end of the year is one big transition wrapped in expectations, plans, and emotional pressure.

If your symptoms feel sharper right now, it doesn’t mean you’re losing progress.
It means your brain and body are asking for a bit more care.

You Don’t Have to Navigate This Alone

At Rooted in Serenity Behavioral Health, I help people untangle their anxiety and find steadier ways to move through demanding seasons. Together, we can look at what’s contributing to your symptoms and create a plan that helps you feel grounded, supported, and more like yourself again.

If this time of year feels heavy, you’re welcome to reach out.

You deserve calm, even in busy seasons.
You deserve care that feels steady and human.

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🌿 Tannia Salazar, APRN, Founder of Rooted in Serenity Behavioral Health LLC, provides compassionate, trauma-informed psychiatric medication management and integrative mental health care for adults across Connecticut — available statewide via telehealth and in-person in Middlebury, CT.

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