"I'm Tired But I Can’t Rest: The Mental Load of High-Functioning Anxiety"
You’re holding it together. You meet deadlines. You’re always there for others.
From the outside, you seem capable—even calm.
But inside? You’re exhausted.
Not just tired. Worn down by the endless buzzing of thoughts, what-ifs, and self-criticism.
That’s high-functioning anxiety—and it’s often invisible.
What does high-functioning anxiety feel like?
You can’t rest—even when you’re physically still
You replay conversations long after they’ve ended
You plan for every possible outcome, just in case
You have trouble falling or staying asleep
You constantly feel behind, even when you're on top of things
You feel tension in your body: tight chest, clenched jaw, shallow breath
You worry you’re not doing enough—no matter how much you do
You’re “doing well,” but you’re not okay.
You smile, but your mind races.
You’re successful, but your nervous system is in overdrive.
This is anxiety, too.
It doesn’t always show up as panic attacks.
Sometimes it looks like perfectionism, people-pleasing, or overachievement.
It’s the mental load that never shuts off.
You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep white-knuckling through it.
At Rooted in Serenity Behavioral Health, we help adults across Connecticut manage the mental and physical weight of anxiety—with trauma-informed psychiatric medication support that meets you gently, right where you are.
Sometimes relief isn’t about doing more. It’s about giving yourself permission to pause.
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